TOP 7 WAYS TO BE THE ROMANTIC MAN

Every guy needs tips on being a more romantic man. Men are not naturally romantic.

Why are men not programmed to be romantic? Because we tend to seek power and respect in our lives over relationships. The funny thing is instinctually, we seek power and respect to make ourselves more attractive to girls. But if we focus on being more romantic instead of powerful, we will instantly attract more ladies.

We all have those images of what romance is, images that come from movies, books and, reality TV. Due to these pictures of romance, we sometimes see romance as work or corny. When a relationship is new, we go out of our way to do romantic gestures on a grand scale. We forget that the tiniest gift or gesture given at the right moment will ignite a blazing fire in her ready heart. It reassures your partner you are still interested.

So, here we are telling top 7 ways to be the most romantic man for your girl:

Let’s stop thinking about being romantic as something for special occasions only. Being romantic to your Love is the one thing making your relationship different and special from all other relationships. Guys, this is why romance is valuable in a relationship!

Romance is an act of giving from a heart that is overflowing with love. There are two parts necessary to make it work. There is first the giver and second, the receiver. A key to romance is good timing and a loving attitude or it will be clunky and may not be received in the way it was given.

Guys before we start with the list of ideas, I can not stress enough that you have to get to know your girl. What does she like, what are her favorite colors or places to shop, are her ears pierced, what color are her eyes, does she like gold or silver, what is her birthstone or what is her favorite flower? This list could go on. After year I feel like I know Michelle inside and out but at times it feels like I’m still getting to know those little things.

Getting to know your girl really should be the first romantic tip on our list. When she thinks you are genuinely interested in all those little things, it makes her heart smile, that means you are on the right track and going the right direction.

1. Be Spontaneous, and a Planner!

Sorry gentlemen, this one is not easy. As a confident man, you are expected to know what to do to make her happy (with no information to go on), plan a memorable date, and make it look spontaneous. Google date ideas and make one your own with things that are special to her.

This can only come with practice (and a whole lot of confidence in your plan). Do your homework. If planning a movie night, know what movies she likes, what she has already seen, and plan something out without reveling your plans along the way (in order to look spontaneous).

Also, throw in some things to make it memorable. Maybe picnic desert on the beach or a walk along the river. Making sure you are prepared for anything will tell her you cared enough to make sure everything was perfect.

2. Kiss her as much as possible.

Kiss hello, Kiss goodbye, Kiss it’s been too long, Kiss just because, Kiss thank you, Kiss you’re welcome. Rollover in the middle of the night and give her a kiss while she’s sleeping.

3. Book a holiday.

Traveling together is a great way to strengthen your relationship. It is often said that travelling for literally 24 hours together is the true test of a relationship. Whether you go around the world or just to the next town, a holiday is always romantic. Not everyone can just up and decide to spend a week in the Caribbean, but a simple camping trip can be just as passionate as an expensive trip.

4. Cook For Her

People say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but women also appreciate a man who has some kitchen skills. Surprise her and make her dinner. Don’t just do it once. Make it a regular thing by repeating the gesture once a month or more often. If you can’t cook, try to find a class or even learn from YouTube videos. A home cooked meal, a few candles, and a bottle of wine are just some of the elements of a romantic evening. It’s difficult to overstate just how much she will appreciate this.

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Be In The Kitchen Together

Women love to have their man in the kitchen with them. Picture yourself side by side creating a meal together. There will be times when your hands touch each other, or you walk behind her and your hand runs over the small of her back.

While you are waiting for water to boil, take a brief break, have a sip of wine and a kiss. Don’t just do this once I’d suggest making this a regular occurrence. Add a few candles, and that bottle of wine and you are well on your way to a romantic evening she is sure to remember and appreciate. Follow it up with doing dishes together. One of you wash and the other dry.

5. Make A Night Of It

Initiate a surprise night of indulgence where you put on her favourite romantic comedies, order her favourite food (pizza, sushi, etc.) and pamper her with a massage, wine, or both.

6. Let your hands do the talking.

Learn one of the greatest skills a man can have to make a woman happy. No! Not that one. You have a dirty mind, although that’s important too. Learn to give a great massage. When she’s come home from a long day at work, sit her down somewhere comfortable and give her a massage.

A quick 10-minute massage on her neck and shoulders can make you almost god-like in her book. A good foot massage is also one of the best things in life after a hard day. After a romantic evening, when you’re already in bed, bring massage oils into the mix and make it a sensual massage that might lead to other things….

7. Small Gestures of Love

At the end of the day, every woman wants to know you’re thinking about her. This doesn’t need to be complicated because you should be thinking about her anyway. The simple tip he is to take some action to let her know you are thinking about her.

This could be little notes or messages, doing small things for her, or making her life just a little bit easier. Every girl has a list of her favorite things. Learn what is important to your lady, and do it.

There are an unlimited number of gestures you can do here and the key is to be unique. Do something that will surprise her so she can tell her friends about the creative ways you show your love. Call her at unexpected times to say you love her (text it if more appropriate), write her a note, or just give her an unexpected kiss.

Women, receive any romantic effort by your man, with love. Time and communication will help him grow up his romantic side. Most of all, please don’t ‘make him’ do any of these romantic things.
Help him to ‘want to’ do these things for you from a giving heart full of love.

To sum it up guys, in short, all of these romantic things tell your girl that you are thinking about her all the time. Don’t think of any of these things as chores or a must-do. Think of it as a way to take your relationship to a higher level. A way to make things happier, and keep things fun and interesting.

Romance shouldn’t be something you do, it should be the way you live.

That’s all for it. Thanks for reading!!